iguanapunk Escribi�:

What if it's a tumour?

Boys



Speaking of boys , i jsut found out my ex-bf has a new gf. Again. It doesn't bother me to much anymore but why can't he just tell me ?! Why do i have to hear it from my best friend ?! Argh. We are so close and he doesn't tell me something so big. Grmbl.



Anyways. Lalalaa

i like you method of Lalalaaing your way out of hard times.

Jeanie Escribi�:

Boys



Speaking of boys , i jsut found out my ex-bf has a new gf. Again. It doesn't bother me to much anymore but why can't he just tell me ?! Why do i have to hear it from my best friend ?! Argh. We are so close and he doesn't tell me something so big. Grmbl.



Anyways. Lalalaa

I suppose it's a tough subject to bring up: "So, um, I'm kinda seeing someone one again...."



I know I'd feel a bit awkward about it.

She's probably not nearly as hot as you are and he's ashamed.

Jeanie, always feel good in the fact that i'd do you silly in a spiderman costume.

Wait, her in the spiderman costume or you in the spider costume?

toomuch'stash Escribi�:

Wait, her in the spiderman costume or you in the spider costume?

me, in a extra small size.

stop being awake when i'm drunk, it's just plain rude!

Bwaaaahahaaa! iggy and stash... the banter between you two keeps me warm at night. Really, it does.



Jeanie, I'm not sure I have any useful pearls of wisdom for you. Perhaps your ex boyfriend is distancing himself from you... and it's likely his new girlfriend behind this but maybe he's trying start anew. I don't think this has much to do with insecurity on either your boyfriend's or his new girlfriend's part - just a thing about moving on.



You are lucky to still be friends with your ex boyfriend but the fact remains you both have an intense history together both emotional and physical. History will always affect the present and the future and this is true when it comes to love. Even after-the-fact when you are maintaining a friendship, that history can hold you back and keep you from moving on if you let it... I hate to assume here, but I think your ex is moving on by the sound of it and slowly, although I'm sure he doesn't want to hurt you in any way, he's distancing himself from you because of this. Men fall just as hard as women do when it comes to matters of love, but I also think men have the ability to pick up the pieces and move on a little quicker than girls sometimes. Plus there is his new girlfriend to consider - the less you are out of his life, then she is spared the intimate details of your relationship with him, even the friendly details. No girl wants to hear about the good times they had and continue to have with their ex girlfriends. And I think it works both ways. I love stash with all my heart and I am secure in my marriage and love for him, but in the beginning I used to cringe when he'd talk about his ex's and he was the same way when it came to my ex's (and I remained friends with one of mine for a couple of years even after stash and I got married - it was hard on him, and looking back I might not have done the right thing by keeping my ex in my life as a casual acquaintance - but you live and learn) Imagine dating a man who was still very chummy with his ex, although it might not bother you at first, if the friendship is ever-so-chummy it *will* grate on you eventually.



Goddamn it. Get a fricken land line so I can call you, OK??? X-D

Jeanie Escribi�:

Boys



Speaking of boys , i jsut found out my ex-bf has a new gf. Again. It doesn't bother me to much anymore but why can't he just tell me ?! Why do i have to hear it from my best friend ?! Argh. We are so close and he doesn't tell me something so big. Grmbl.



Anyways. Lalalaa

I think it's because he doesn't want to hurt you. I know that kind of things with my ex too... We're still good friends, but she is distancing too... I know she likes me a lot, and I know she miss me in some kind of way, so that hurts to know that she probably has a new bf, and to know that we could be together if she had another way of thinking...





In other news, I spent 1h45 to go home tonight instead of 1 hour... Because a guy killed himself by jumping under the metro, just when the one I was in was entering the station... So we had to evacuate the station, I crossed the firemen running in the stairs with a hand-barrow and other things, there was 2 fireman trucks, 2 or 3 police cars outside... And many many people annoyed going outside, including me... I had to walk for the equivalent of 2 metro station and then take another metro line to rejoin the line I had to take to go home...

re telling old partners about new partners. i was havin this discussion the other day actually, and we decided its well difficult - on the one hand you want to tell them so they dont hear it from anyone else yet on the otherhand its hard to tell your ex without it sounding like your boasting or rubbing their noses in it, or just generally not wanting to hurt them/feel awkward.



its a dilemma. i think we decided best to tell them anyway, but in a nice way. all depends on your relationship with them (your ex) at the time i guess.



pisser about yer tran journy ben_j. least u got home eventually eh ;)



i now have a night in of college work. on a friday night. dj yoda i splayin at ocean rooms (thogh ive seeen him before, he werent that great tbh) and bugz in the attic are playin union (who are mean to be fantastic djs'). and i have to write a load of waffle on operational amplifiers. bah. }:-@

Fuck yeah weekend is here. hopefully goin clubbin today and smokin the ganja....

fuck yeah... I haven't seen whirly, my son OR my computer since tuesday night, fucking business trips.

Awww you guys are so fucking awesome.

I wasn't feeling bad because he has a new gf ( he already had one after me , that one made me depressed ) because i'm over him and all , and he's moving on. I was just pissed off why he didn't tell me. But turns out my mate Luna misunderstood , and he is actually with her for just some days now , and he didn't want to inform me when he wasn't sure if it was gonna be serious. So i understand him now.



We actually had an awesome phonecall and i said that i was happy for him. And tbh , i really am :-| A year ago i didn't think i was ever gonna be over this , and look ta me now! Hahaha!



He also told her that i am very important for him and that he hoped she wasn't gonna make any troubles ( like his ex gf who forbidded him to answer my phonecalls )



Aw well , so far for Jeanie's love life.



I was just frustrated. but now i am on top of the world again!



BIG HUGS TO YOU ALL!!



And Iggy......A SPIDERMAN SUIT ?!?!

I don't know why! :? You seen my drunken ramblings before, have they made sense?

Like the one where you said you were afraid of flying and you needed land ? LAND !?



BWAHAHAHA! Yeah that made a lot of sense!

HAHAHAHA!



That is one funny picture! X-D

Alone, I'm not sure, but the relevance here...