Darkstar, i got a new replacement girlfriend for you. Her name is Jeanie, and guess what, she likes the chemical brothers. ;-)

So it sounds like all's pretty well and content then?

whirlygirl Escribi�:

She must be loving that single life since she's obviously too busy being wined and dined by her many suitors to have time giving you back the money she owes.



If that is the way she's playing, if that is how she wants to be then you may have kissed your money goodbye...



If you don't hear from her, take what little things she has left in your possession and mail them to her. Or kick em to the curb with next week's trash. And be done. I am sorry Darkstar. :(

After a couple of snarky MSN sigs that were obviously provocative on my part, I apologized and she texted me to say she would send me the money. I texted back saying I appreciate that but would still like to go out for coffee and chat if she was alright with that. No response yet, but we'll see. I can appreciate that this is hard for her. It's odd for me.



Things might be alright now. Hope they are. I'd like to be civil and cordial if possible. If not possible, fine, but I don't want it to come to that and it doesn't seem like it will.



(And I like the t-shirt and book of hers I still have. No prob keeping those if it came down to it. The vibrator I have no real use for, it's a little big for me. 8O X-D )

Bosco Escribi�:

Darkstar, i got a new replacement girlfriend for you. Her name is Jeanie, and guess what, she likes the chemical brothers.

hahaha. My ex likes the Chems too (although not as much as Jeanie, of course) and look where that got me! X-D And, of course I adore Jeanie, but I'd hope to have someone a little bit closer to home. I get lonely and need cuddling on these cold winter nights. :-// 8) X-D

Oh, and if anyone can believe it, I haven't been to see any strippers at all in the six weeks we've been apart. No naked females live in the flesh in six weeks (well, longer, I guess). I can't believe it myself. ;-)



We'll see what tomorrow's clubbing escapades bring. 8O

Awww you guys are so sweet X-D

I feel loved !!

But you know Darkstar - people act weird in this kind off situations. I know from experience. Maybe she just needs some more time.



And that vibrator....yeah. Thats not gonna work for a dude. And she might need it now youre not around. I would show some understanding-ness and mail it back to her. X-D

Darkstarexodus Escribi�:

No naked females live in the flesh in six weeks

Nice wording there man, I can read between the lines on that one ;-)

relationships are over-rated.



get yourself a fuck buddy.



flog the dildo on ebay (unwashed). some people will pay good money for that sort of shit. send her the link though so she has a chance to bid on it.

Tim I'm glad you can work it out with your ex and glad she responded to you. I think if you feel the best way to go about this is to get a nice cup of coffee and do the personal stuff exchange - then you both can part ways without there being any bad blood between you.



It just makes me mad to be ignored and to see people I know being ignored when they are trying to reach out.



About the vibrator, glad to see you have the forsight to know you don't plan on gutting yourself like a Thanksgiving turkey. X-D Best to give it back to her - now that would be a real gentleman of you!

She e-mailed me today. Said she isn't quite ready for a face-to-face yet and that she'll be in touch in the New Year and that the money will be in the post.



While I'd like to see her and chat, I can understand and respect her wishes, so it's all good.



Sent her a really nice e-mail reply and we'll see what happens from here.

Really, really, really interesting night out.



I'm not sure if I'm single anymore. The next few days will tell, I guess.



Great night though, if more than a little unexpected from a number of fronts.



Totally bizarre and great, at the same time.

WHAAH!

What the fuck dude X-D

Tim man...............





You Rock!



Let us know what happend !!

Jeanie Escribi�:

WHAAH!

What the fuck dude X-D

Tim man...............





You Rock!



Let us know what happend !!

Going to be discreet for the time being, esp. until I have a better idea of what's going on, but if I catch you on MSN, I'll let you know the story.

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I'll be online ;)

I've discovered why i'm single and why I will remain to be single for the entire of my drunken existance. It's the beer you see. It does things to me. Horrible, horrible things.



Last weekend, at a friends birthday (all of this I cannot recal) I was at a dirty alternative club. My friend introduced me to this girl and for some reason unknown to me and my friends I began to mime jerking a man off and spraying his yogurt all over my face. Now why would I do this? Why? I was doing it all night. What onlookers must have thought isn't worth thinking about. I am red faced as I type.



Also, a tip: Don't beat it, to beat it. I requested Beat it by Michael Jackson for my friend (and secretly myself) and they played it :D As the chorus came "beat it" we then began to 'air wank'. I'm sure you can build up a picture in your mind of the dance moves.



So yeah, destined to be single X-D

hahaha, cheers Iggy!



I'm taking notes of how not to pull! X-D



Definetly this thread is wide open to anyone else who has gripes about the single life or stories or good times or whatever.



Although I kinda like the beat it to "Beat It" idea. I don't care if that obliterates any chance of conjugal relations.

I could bitch about it here, but I don't have the time nor motivation to do it. Maybe one day when I'm buzzed

Well.



Here we go. As AnT was wondering about this in another thread , here's the Jeanie's Non Existing Love Life Story.



So , saturday it's exactly 2 years ago me and my ex bf broke up. The breaking up itself was quite allright because we both knew it was for the better - we weren't in love anymore. The big shock AND huge depression came when , only 1.5 month later , he had a new GF , and i had to find this out when i was all alone in New York.



But , time heals all wounds and a year later i was feeling totally fine. He has a different girlfriend now and she might be " the one " for him , and i am very happy for him because i care a lot about him and it's great he's happy !



So , in the meantime i only had one romance , wich wasn't really a romance but more....well , it was in New York , and it was spring , and he was quite allright and i was kind off lonely , but i never REALLY fancied him.



I like being single for one reason : If i would have a boyfriend i wouldn't be able to travel as much as i do.



But for the rest , i don't like it at all! I'm a very romantic , passionate person and i'm just waiting for that one person that will make me head over heels in love. And i haven't met that person yet....also because i travel to much to get to know people properly. And i have a trust issue too , i have a hard time to seperate the good ones from the bad ones. I always think when i guy is just being nice he wants something from me. Wich usually is the case though.



And i am not the "fucking around " kinda type either , hence that my lovelife really is down to zero right now. I don't let guys in my heart that easily , it's a realy privelidge if i fall in love with somebody X-D



So , thats my being single story.



Any other lonely souls out there ?!



:'(

Jeanie Escribi�:

I always think when i guy is just being nice he wants something from me. Wich usually is the case though

:(

I think it's pretty unfair to suggest that. I know it's not personal or anything, but I believe that many girls (if not the vast majority) have the same view as that, and that's what makes things so hard for the guys. There are tons of the "good guys" out there, and they tend to be the quiet ones. It's the few tosser the world has, the guys that are "all that", they're the ones that get the girls, and then the girls bitch about the fact that this jerk has dumped them the next week and he's off on the pull again.

Not directed at you Jeanie, just a general rant coz I'm single and bored of it, I reserve the right to be moody. Plus it's bedtime :P

See , if a NICE , kind off quiet , shy guys comes up to me to talk , i'm always really nice altho usually i'm not intrested. But i'm not talking about those guys. I'm talking about the smooth kind. I've seen too many of those guys you know. And when my radar suggests one of the smooth ones , i go into attack mode , and i get VERY sarcastic. Because i hate those kind off guys. My point is that ive really seen to many off those guys and i ( unfair , like you said ) asume " well there probably the same "



But you're right though - you're totally right. As i said , i have trust "Issues" :P