Posted 08 December 2006 - 12:02 AM
Now let's all have angry make-up sex and get it out of our system so we can be all lovey dovey again.
Seriously. Where's the love at??? Let's reserve the flaming for people that tuly deserve it - like trolls or people who come here intending to start shit. And flaming each other (ex: stash/Slipvin battles) is OK from time to time too because there's a sizable history between us all. X-D Coexist, people. There will be a time when the next album comes out and this place is going to be filled with trolls and people starting shit. Pool the resources, band together.
But for newbies or first timers, we all had to start somewhere. We were all new to the music and new on this board at one time. I like new blood, for purely selfish reasons: I'm interested in what they are willing to bring to the table because that in turn can provide a fresh outlook on things. I like the enthusiasm, too - it is much needed on slow forum days. Conversation is why I dig coming here. I like being able to answer questions or when someone challenges my view, and it's even better when someone else can jump in and offer their take. I don't understand the resentment toward newbies and why there is this unwritten rule that they have to be treated like shit upon entry.
be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle