"Tom and Ed don't talk about your personal lives, you will not talk about their personal lives. This is not open for debate or discussion."

Just what this forum needs. People who tell us what we can and cannot discuss. Just like the Chinese government: 'We decide what you can and can't say and if you don't do as you're told you will suffer the consequences'.

I do not approve of the methods used to clearify this, especially since the thread is locked and not open for debate. Why exactly isn't this allowed to be discussed? Do explain. And finally: you could try a more friendly approach instead of this Fuhrer-like behaviour.