Hey Jester, here is what I wrote in the Liverpool thread:
whirly wrote:
Hey, 13 isn't too young for a show. I was around that age when I went to my first concert. That show was assigned seating, however, no general admission anywhere and I was with my older brother and his friends so it wasn't a challenge to stand my ground. The crowd were fanatical and into it, but there was no moshing or anything of the sort.
The Chems might be a little different though. I myself am short, only a tad over 5 ft. tall and it can be hard for me to stand my ground especially when the crowd is tight. But don't let your age be a factor. I am old enough to be your mother Jester (that's a scary thought!!) and personally think it's really cool to see young people at shows. I'm here to tell you that going to a show where there's only older people standing around with their arms folded is an absolute drag. So a good mix of all ages is good for everyone and having young people in the mix of an all ages crowd is good for a show, good for a band to see they're reaching people of all ages. Will this be your first concert, Jester?
As for being able to see, I think you should be fine. The visuals are really eye popping and larger than life this time around. Plus the crowd ebbs and flows at these types of concerts without assigned seating. The person in front of you 5 minutes previously will likely have meandered to another spot in the crowd later on. You should be OK as long as someone who's 6'3" doesn't stand in front of you the whole time.
Fair play what Jenny says about drugs. I know you'll do what you want to do but 13 is too young IMO. It really is - you can go sober and have your wits about you and you won't have to worry about anything like drugs getting in the way. So really, my advice as a parent is lay off this time and just go to the show and enjoy.
Since it's your first show, you're 13 and not very tall - I do NOT recommend trying to push your way to the front. It gets awfully crowded and though the crowds at Chems shows are generally communal, friendly and there to dance, it's not uncommon for people getting a bit too territorial over their "space". Or if people are knocking into them. So if you want close to the stage, just get their early. I've seen the Chems dj and live 6 times in all at different vantage points varying from up against the rails to very close back to of a crowd - and it's been really cool each time, adds to the ever evolving experience. Just don't worry about it and you'll do great. You're there to dance, have fun and enjoy your first ever concert and Chems experience so you're going to have a good time no matter what.
And quit worrying about your age. :P