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how old is everyone here??
#137
Posted 31 December 2003 - 3:24 AM
Goin on 32 in less than a month. So far the early 30's are shaping up to be part retrospective, part yearning to do something extraordinary, with a dash of "what the fuck am I doing with my life?" even though being mom is #1 and most rewarding - generally even keeled with a lot less drama than in previous years!
be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle
#138
Posted 31 December 2003 - 5:05 AM
yes happy belated birthday .. and a question is there a real age when you become a adult ..? ya know is it really 18 ... or 21 or 30 in tha matter .. when do we really become an adult... * ponders* :-?
"The past is a foreign country, they do things differently there"- Leslie Poles Hartley
#139
Posted 31 December 2003 - 5:44 AM
Ah-ha! Good question... *ponders*
I suppose it's more of when society says when we're adults, and what it expects of us as adults. Or what parents expect of their children when they are on the brink of adulthood. Maybe. Maybe not. *ponders some more*
I suppose it's more of when society says when we're adults, and what it expects of us as adults. Or what parents expect of their children when they are on the brink of adulthood. Maybe. Maybe not. *ponders some more*
be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle
#140
Posted 31 December 2003 - 5:24 PM
yes turning 30 is a big head fuck!! i've been shitting myself over it the last month. and what you said whirlygirl about being retrospective is so true. i've been asking myself some big life questions. my life seems to be very still while every one around me is climbing up the ladder of life.
when i was getting into my 20's, that was when my life started. someone told me 'life is not a dress rehersal' and that is so true. and while some people i knew wanted to settle down and act like they were 40 and have the house, the wife and the kids. i wanted to live my life to the fullest. i didn't want to hit 40 or 50 thinking i had wasted my youth. so i have spent the last 10 years living my life to max, and i've had some great times, i have the best friends in the world. but now i here this nagging voice inside my head, saying i've had the good times, and now i need something more out of life. and thats the head fuck off being 30!!
i know this has no relevance to the forum, but i need to get i of my chest.
good times + good friends = inner peace
when i was getting into my 20's, that was when my life started. someone told me 'life is not a dress rehersal' and that is so true. and while some people i knew wanted to settle down and act like they were 40 and have the house, the wife and the kids. i wanted to live my life to the fullest. i didn't want to hit 40 or 50 thinking i had wasted my youth. so i have spent the last 10 years living my life to max, and i've had some great times, i have the best friends in the world. but now i here this nagging voice inside my head, saying i've had the good times, and now i need something more out of life. and thats the head fuck off being 30!!
i know this has no relevance to the forum, but i need to get i of my chest.
good times + good friends = inner peace
I'm a fuckin doughnut