That's fair play then, I can imagine you'd get ticked off with it eventually.

And now I really am going to bed!

Meh. I believe most guys really do have that on the mind, at least at the periphery. It might not be the most important thing on their mind, but it's there.



Or I'm just scummy. Take your pick.

Still single, looks like, which makes me happy. Might have a good situation on my hands.

Usually when anyone is nice to you (as in, showing a romantic interest) of course they are wanting something more. I think sexual attraction is important, it's a biological imperative that cannot be ignored. We're animals, and although we have the capacity to reason and have self control we're still driven by these animal instincts. Being attracted to certain body types or personalities just falls in line with this - some like the shy guys, others like the smooth type, nice girls like bad boys, vice versa - it all gets very convoluted.



When stash and I met (we were quite young anyway) I'd been without a boyfriend for months. Not that I couldn't get a date, but it was to protect myself since the boyfriend I had before him burned me pretty hard. And for some reason, even though I never had a physical or personality preference, I was pretty stuck up and picky. Never really had positive role models growing up when it came to love, except for my mom's parents who I wasn't real close to until later on, and as years went on my brother and his wife. The only thing I have to say about the months leading up to when I met my husband is - what a friggen waste of time, why wasn't I out enjoying my life! I just don't think love works the same way twice - kind of like, your heart can break differently each time. But one thing is certain and it's that you don't find love, it finds you if you just let it. And the day you realize it's love, it hits you like a ton of bricks like nothing else. It's beautiful and complex, runs hot and cold, from solid to fragile - it goes from one extreme to the other. Yet it's the most simple and pure expression there is. It's really cool if you think about it... I think it's healthy to just go for it and take a chance (but proceed with caution), wipe the slate clean and open up because just about everyone's got something to give. You never know. You may find yourself 12 years later typing stupid shit about love on a band's official messageboard, like me. :P

charning shit , not stupid shit.

that being charming not charning

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: You are a true legend of this board, whirly :D

You're like the Oracle here, always bringing the wise words, not always understood by all but those who do feel special and enlightened

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Oh my, did I really ramble on last night... you guys flatter me!! :-//

Jeanie Escribi�:

I always think when i guy is just being nice he wants something from me. Wich usually is the case though

Remember children, if you wants the hotz wimmen, you gotta treat them like crap!



Thank you Jeanie for reminding us all of this important lesson.

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Simple fact is you've got to have at least two of the following to be successful: 1) Good looks, 2) Money, 3) Drugs, 4) A Steady Job, 5) Vehicle.



If you've got two, you're probably in. Three it's a lock.

Darkstarexodus Escribi�:

Simple fact is you've got to have at least two of the following to be successful: 1) Good looks, 2) Money, 3) Drugs, 4) A Steady Job, 5) Vehicle.



If you've got two, you're probably in. Three it's a lock.

Oh god



:'(

Darkstarexodus Escribi�:

Simple fact is you've got to have at least two of the following to be successful: 1) Good looks, 2) Money, 3) Drugs, 4) A Steady Job, 5) Vehicle.



If you've got two, you're probably in. Three it's a lock.

* 6) big dong

Bosco Escribi�:

Darkstarexodus Escribi�:

Simple fact is you've got to have at least two of the following to be successful: 1) Good looks, 2) Money, 3) Drugs, 4) A Steady Job, 5) Vehicle.



If you've got two, you're probably in. Three it's a lock.

* 6) big dong

Oh lord



:'(

iguanapunk Escribi�:

Bosco Escribi�:

Darkstarexodus Escribi�:

Simple fact is you've got to have at least two of the following to be successful: 1) Good looks, 2) Money, 3) Drugs, 4) A Steady Job, 5) Vehicle.



If you've got two, you're probably in. Three it's a lock.

* 6) big dong

Oh lord



:'(

* 7) confidence

If you've gotten to the position where you're showing them your genitalia, you've already either succeeded due to at least two of the other factors, or you're a public exhibitionist.



(And confidence should be added to the list.)

Confindence is number one in any list. In fact, I think it's all you need in a list but, sometimes confidence comes with having all of those other things you mentioned. Some people though, just have it, and they win.

True enough. But you need to have a confidence that isn't smarmy.

and if none of that does work, you can always use *gulp* Magnum :o